No one plans on it at the time they get married, but many may have to deal with divorce and the financial impact it will have on them. Sadly, this is a common reality for many people, and both men and women will be faced with living on one salary instead of two and dividing assets that can leave them struggling financially.
Although divorces can be contentious, in many cases both spouses may want to split on good terms, but finances can open the door for unexpected problems as the more unpleasant details of the breakup have to be decided. Therefore, no matter what, both parties should have a lawyer to work these out and avoid any possible nastiness. And of course the laws that may ultimately decide the division of finances are complicated and difficult to understand for most people.
Many couples also have joint savings and retirement or brokerage accounts. At the onset of the breakup the holders of these accounts have to be notified that a separation has occurred and that any transaction has to be verified by notifying both parties before any changes are made. This is another job for the lawyers. They will also be able to equitably decide what portions of a spouse’s retirement the other is entitled to based on the years of marriage which now may apply to both the husband and the wife. And again, the council of an attorney can outline the options that may include a one-time payment, monthly payments at retirement, or a lump-sum payment that you transfer directly into your own IRA, where your money will continue to grow until retirement.
Setting Financial Goals
Why set financial goals? To achieve financial freedom, of course! Perhaps you will one day want the freedom to buy a house, send your children to college, continue your own education, or take a long overseas voyage. Or maybe you just want to have the freedom to live comfortably, without having to live paycheck to paycheck or worry where your next mortgage payment will come from. Here are some general tips for paving the way to personal financial freedom, whether you're in it alone or with your spouse or partner.
Set financial goals that are both important and inspiration for you. Don't set a goal because it was someone else's suggestion, make the goal yours so that you'll be motivated to follow through.
State your goal in the positive, and be specific. For example, "I want to buy a house" is much more encouraging and on point than "don't spend money."
Write down your goal or list of goals. Place it where you can see it daily, whether that's on your desk, the corner of your computer screen, in your wallet, on your refrigerator, or on your mirror. One way to reduce credit card spending is by writing your debt amount on a Post-It note and sticking it to your credit card.
Set a date. Many of us are driven by deadlines, so set a realistic date for achieving your goal and write it down. If you miss your date, it was probably too soon, so allow yourself plenty of time.
Stay focused on your goal and take action. If you want to buy a house, start looking at properties and pricing. Set a budget and talk to real estate agents. Most importantly, put aside savings and remind yourself that you're putting money away for a home.
Review your goal every month or so. Check your savings - are you making real progress? If not, you may need to eliminate certain expenditures (eating out, purchasing designer clothes, etc.) to put you closer to the finish line.
Set financial goals that are both important and inspiration for you. Don't set a goal because it was someone else's suggestion, make the goal yours so that you'll be motivated to follow through.
State your goal in the positive, and be specific. For example, "I want to buy a house" is much more encouraging and on point than "don't spend money."
Write down your goal or list of goals. Place it where you can see it daily, whether that's on your desk, the corner of your computer screen, in your wallet, on your refrigerator, or on your mirror. One way to reduce credit card spending is by writing your debt amount on a Post-It note and sticking it to your credit card.
Set a date. Many of us are driven by deadlines, so set a realistic date for achieving your goal and write it down. If you miss your date, it was probably too soon, so allow yourself plenty of time.
Stay focused on your goal and take action. If you want to buy a house, start looking at properties and pricing. Set a budget and talk to real estate agents. Most importantly, put aside savings and remind yourself that you're putting money away for a home.
Review your goal every month or so. Check your savings - are you making real progress? If not, you may need to eliminate certain expenditures (eating out, purchasing designer clothes, etc.) to put you closer to the finish line.
Feelings Of Shame And Guilt Over Bankruptcy
Many of the good people that I counsel regarding bankruptcy come into my office under tremendous stress and are upset or even crying. Some of this stress is without doubt caused by rude and unethical collection agents that threaten, harass, and intimidate debtors at all hours of the day and night. Some of the stress is caused by the realization that they have come to a pivotal point in their financial lives and are in need of professional help. For many people, however, there is a heavy feeling of guilt associated with the concept that they may be filing for bankruptcy relief.
These are just a few things that I like to remind clients that are burdened with feelings of guilt or shame:
In the vast majority of cases, it is not your fault.
In the case of health problems which bring on loss of the ability to work full time and large medical bills: I have never met a person that tried to get sick or injured. These are unfortunate events that simply happen, and they are no one’s fault.
In the case of a failed business venture or investment: America was built upon the spirit of entrepreneurship and risk taking. Without the courage of those willing to take risks in order to create businesses and invest in other’s businesses, this would not be a land of opportunity and free enterprise. Bankruptcy laws are tailored to encourage this spirit and provide a fresh start mechanism when such undertakings fail. Most successful business people suffer through several business failures before they experienced success. There is no shame in having given your best effort and failed.
There are a variety of other circumstances that lead to financial insolvency. Divorce, foreclosures, and unwillingness of creditors to work with debtors on reasonable repayment terms are just a few. None of these are situations that are entered into happily or with a deliberate intent to treat creditors unfairly. They simply happen and the consequences must be dealt with so that individuals can move on and become productive members of society again.
If any of these circumstances have fallen upon you, don’t blame yourself and don’t take it out on your spouse. Evaluate your situation calmly, learn from the past, and take action to move forward in the best way possible.
These are just a few things that I like to remind clients that are burdened with feelings of guilt or shame:
In the vast majority of cases, it is not your fault.
In the case of health problems which bring on loss of the ability to work full time and large medical bills: I have never met a person that tried to get sick or injured. These are unfortunate events that simply happen, and they are no one’s fault.
In the case of a failed business venture or investment: America was built upon the spirit of entrepreneurship and risk taking. Without the courage of those willing to take risks in order to create businesses and invest in other’s businesses, this would not be a land of opportunity and free enterprise. Bankruptcy laws are tailored to encourage this spirit and provide a fresh start mechanism when such undertakings fail. Most successful business people suffer through several business failures before they experienced success. There is no shame in having given your best effort and failed.
There are a variety of other circumstances that lead to financial insolvency. Divorce, foreclosures, and unwillingness of creditors to work with debtors on reasonable repayment terms are just a few. None of these are situations that are entered into happily or with a deliberate intent to treat creditors unfairly. They simply happen and the consequences must be dealt with so that individuals can move on and become productive members of society again.
If any of these circumstances have fallen upon you, don’t blame yourself and don’t take it out on your spouse. Evaluate your situation calmly, learn from the past, and take action to move forward in the best way possible.
Safeguarding your exempt funds by segregating bank accounts
One of the most recurring issues that I deal with in speaking with people about personal finance is the question of how to protect what they have. You may have a lot or a little. In either case, you should take certain simple steps to protect yourself from attacks by creditors. Creditors can include businesses that you have taken loans from, medical or other service providers, or someone that fell on your front porch while you were not home (and plans on suing you). The point is that even if you are thinking that you don't currently have any debt issues, its impossible to see what may lie around the corner.
Certain categories of income are protected from creditors in Florida. The most common among those are: Social Security, Disability Income, Worker's Compensation, Unemployment Compensation, Retirement and Pension benefits, life insurance proceeds, and the wages of a head of household.
A head of household is defined as anyone who provides more than 50% of the support for a dependent. A dependent can be a spouse, a child, or any dependent relative. If you are the major wage earner in your family, then you most likely qualify as "head of household." See Fla Stat. 222.11
The law safeguards these sources of income from seizure or garnishment by creditors. Just because income is legally protected though does not mean that aggressive creditors and their lawyers will not try to take it from you. I speak with people every week who have had wages garnished or bank accounts seized when they could have taken simple and easy steps to protect themselves and their money.
The most basic and easy method of assuring that legally protected income in a bank account will receive the protection that it deserves is to make sure that it is not combined with unprotected money. Simply put, this means that if you receive any income in the categories listed above, deposit it in a bank account that is solely for that income.
In other words, if your income comes from Social Security, deposit that money in an account where you do not deposit any other miscellaneous type of money such as gift money or funds received from selling property. That account with only Social Security (or other specifically protected income ) may be attacked by creditors, but you will have the right to bring the issue before a judge and win the release of your protected funds.
When you mix protected and unprotected funds together in an account, it allows a creditor to argue that there is no longer any way to determine which funds are protected and which are available to creditors. Many judges will agree with this argument and allow the entire account balance to be taken for collection.
Follow this rule of segregation of funds, and you may save yourself a great deal of regret and hardship later on.
Certain categories of income are protected from creditors in Florida. The most common among those are: Social Security, Disability Income, Worker's Compensation, Unemployment Compensation, Retirement and Pension benefits, life insurance proceeds, and the wages of a head of household.
A head of household is defined as anyone who provides more than 50% of the support for a dependent. A dependent can be a spouse, a child, or any dependent relative. If you are the major wage earner in your family, then you most likely qualify as "head of household." See Fla Stat. 222.11
The law safeguards these sources of income from seizure or garnishment by creditors. Just because income is legally protected though does not mean that aggressive creditors and their lawyers will not try to take it from you. I speak with people every week who have had wages garnished or bank accounts seized when they could have taken simple and easy steps to protect themselves and their money.
The most basic and easy method of assuring that legally protected income in a bank account will receive the protection that it deserves is to make sure that it is not combined with unprotected money. Simply put, this means that if you receive any income in the categories listed above, deposit it in a bank account that is solely for that income.
In other words, if your income comes from Social Security, deposit that money in an account where you do not deposit any other miscellaneous type of money such as gift money or funds received from selling property. That account with only Social Security (or other specifically protected income ) may be attacked by creditors, but you will have the right to bring the issue before a judge and win the release of your protected funds.
When you mix protected and unprotected funds together in an account, it allows a creditor to argue that there is no longer any way to determine which funds are protected and which are available to creditors. Many judges will agree with this argument and allow the entire account balance to be taken for collection.
Follow this rule of segregation of funds, and you may save yourself a great deal of regret and hardship later on.
Can Creditors Seize Personal Property
Assuming that you have not given the creditor a lien on any specific property, Florida law allows a debtor to protect a certain amount of personal property from the claims of creditors. If you own a home in Florida, the protection that you are allowed is $1000.00 per person. In other words, if your belongings are worth $2000.00 you can designate one half of the items as exempt. The other half would be available to creditors to satisfy their judgements and they can obtain a court order for seizure of such items. If, however, you do not own a home in Florida, then the protection that you are allowed for personal property goes up to $5000.00 per person. There is also an additional $1000.00 per person automobile exemption that you can apply to any equity that you have in an automobile, motorcycle, or trailer.
Keep in mind that the above assumes that the creditor has sued you and obtained a judgment stating that you owe them money. Without a judgment, the creditor has no right to seize any of your property. There is however, one notable exception. The lender that financed your automobile does have the right of repossession as soon as you fall behind on payments, and they are not required to obtain a judgment or any kind of court order
Keep in mind that the above assumes that the creditor has sued you and obtained a judgment stating that you owe them money. Without a judgment, the creditor has no right to seize any of your property. There is however, one notable exception. The lender that financed your automobile does have the right of repossession as soon as you fall behind on payments, and they are not required to obtain a judgment or any kind of court order
Ending Driver's License Suspension Through Bankruptcy
I often get asked whether a bankruptcy can help to get a driver’s license back after it has been suspended because of a lawsuit for damages arising from the use of an automobile. Under Florida’s Financial Responsibility law (Florida Statutes, Chapter 324) judgement creditor holding a judgement against a debtor arising from the use of an automobile in Florida can apply to the Department of Highway Safety and Motor Vehicles for the suspension of the debtor’s driver’s license until the judgement for damages is paid in full. The loss of driving privileges can mean the inability to get to work and take care of other necessities of modern life which can cause a rapid downward spiral for many people. Because the suspension of the driver’s license results from the existence of the debt, eliminating the underlying debt through bankruptcy also eliminates the basis for the license suspension. Once the debt is discharged in bankruptcy, the DHSMV is required by law to issue the debtor a new license. Be aware, however, that a judgement arising from an auto accident in which the debtor was charged with DUI will not be discharged in bankruptcy. Therefore, a bankruptcy would not result in new driving privileges under those circumstances.
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